Swaid Sameh Purno
3 min readJun 10, 2020

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BABA, where are you ?

BABA”

Someone who will always be with you and teach you to deal with the outside world.

It will help you to make difficult decisions alone. Will protect you from all external damage.

A mother gives birth to a child, does everything to make him a good person, but a father fulfills all the other responsibilities.

When a child is born, the mother is physically pregnant but the father is mentally pregnant. Because he has to think about the future of that child, where he will study, where his future will be bright and so on.

But sadly, many who have a father do not realize this and will only feel this lack when father leaves. But then there will be nothing to do. So respect your father when you have time, love him and make arrangements so that he can live in peace and dignity in the last life.

Now I’ll write a real story about it.

In 2013, Sadaf obtained class 8 with a satisfied score and now he’s taking preparation for Secondary School Certificate board examination. But it was Sadaf’s only dream. Because he is physically disabled. His family was very beautiful. Sadaf’s father was an employee and his mother died at the time of his birth. There is also an older brother, studying at a private university. Sadaf was the youngest in the family, so Dad loved him so much.

The middle class family used to spend their days somehow.

Everything was going well but the elder brother was drug addicted and after a few days there would be a lot of fights at home for money and then Sadaf would go to another room and sit quietly and cry. In this way, in the days of happiness, sometimes dark times would come and go. Despite being physically handicapped, Sadaf’s thinking was much sophisticated.

People with disabilities have some talent but many of us don’t know that.

On the day of Eid, Sadaf and his father used to go to pray together. Sadaf thought in his mind that he would get good results in SSC and HSC exams and get admission in a public university to reduce the burden on his father. But that did not happen.

This peace did not last long. One night, Sadaf’s elder brother came home and started arguing for money. At one point, Sadaf’s older brother accidentally hit Sadaf’s father on the head and he died on the spot. Seeing this, Sadaf got scared and went to the bathroom and started crying. On the other hand, Sadaf’s elder brother fled with money from the cupboard. The next morning, cop and locals came to their house and took her father away. Sadaf was sent to a disability center, a few days later Sadaf’s older brother surrendered to the police and was taken to rehab. Now Sadaf is looking for his father but he does not come, so he waits for him.

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Swaid Sameh Purno

Guest lecturer — Department of English at Luminous University Admission Coaching. BBA, department of Management at University of Dhaka. Lives in Dhaka, Bangel